{"id":7,"date":"2008-05-14T20:06:37","date_gmt":"2008-05-15T03:06:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=7"},"modified":"2011-03-23T08:17:42","modified_gmt":"2011-03-23T15:17:42","slug":"about-me","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=7","title":{"rendered":"About Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a style=\"text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/aboutmelina.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-36\" style=\"border: 0;\" title=\"aboutmelina\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/aboutmelina.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"45\" srcset=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/aboutmelina.jpg 545w, https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/aboutmelina-300x27.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/aboutmelina1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-869\" style=\"border: 0px initial initial;\" title=\"aboutmelina\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/aboutmelina1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/aboutmelina1.jpg 500w, https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/05\/aboutmelina1-300x100.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><a style=\"text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/greekkey31.jpg\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-28\" style=\"border: 0;\" title=\"greekkey31\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/greekkey31.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"13\" srcset=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/greekkey31.jpg 545w, https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/greekkey31-300x8.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/stickers.jpg\"><\/a><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/stickers.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft alignnone size-medium wp-image-30\" style=\"border: 0; float: left; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px;\" title=\"stickers\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/stickers.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"175\" height=\"69\" \/><\/a><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">On October 6th, 2007, I went to Central Park with the dog and my iPod. I sat on a bench by Turtle Pond<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">and listened to the<\/span> <a title=\"Will Write For Wine\" href=\"http:\/\/willwriteforwine.com\" target=\"_blank\">Will Write For Wine<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\">e<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\">pisode on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nanowrimo.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">NaNoWriMo<\/a>. <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Less than two months later, I had a 50,000 word <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">manuscript that eventually turned into<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=21\">Daphna in the Rough<\/a>. <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">This is why I feel so indebted to <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.lanidianerich.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Lani<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">and <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.samanthagraves.com\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Sam<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a>. <span style=\"color: #000000;\">They got me to write a book. I wonder what other crazy things my addiction to their poscast could cause me to do.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I&#8217;m now a card carrying member of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rwanational.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Romance Writers of America<\/a> (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.rwanational.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">National<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rwanyc.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">New York City<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chicklitwriters.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Chick Lit<\/a> chapters). I&#8217;m currently writing my third novel.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">In addition to being a writer, I&#8217;m a computer teacher and freelance editor. If you want to know more about me, read on:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/melinak.tif\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-29\" style=\"border: 0; float: right;\" title=\"melinak\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/melinak.tif\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I also go by Melissa, which in Greek means honey bee. My mother will tell you it&#8217;s the perfect name for me because &#8220;I&#8217;m sweet but have a stinger.&#8221; In Greece, my relatives often call me Melisoula or Melisaki (my little Melissa).<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The name is also fitting because this bee pendant is one of the symbols of Crete:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.add.gr\/jewel\/elka\/images\/pr4s.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"138\" height=\"121\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p>Here&#8217;s a Greek song my cousins used to sing to me. It&#8217;s called &#8220;Mikri Mou Melissa&#8221; or &#8220;My Little Honey Bee.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[youtube]http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=R3PFd1r0X78[\/youtube]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">My birthday is March 28th. It&#8217;s also<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jenniferweiner.com\" target=\"_blank\">Jennifer Weiner&#8217;s<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">and<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.laurenweisberger.com\" target=\"_blank\">Lauren Weisberger&#8217;s<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">birthdays. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Not sure what to make <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">of that. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Maybe it&#8217;s a Jewish women&#8217;s fiction author thing. \u00a0Who knows?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/wwfwdaff.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-37\" style=\"border: 0; float: left; margin: 10px;\" title=\"wwfwdaff\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/wwfwdaff-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Daffodils are my birthday flower. And I love them because I feel like they&#8217;re going to sing to me. They also play a big role in Daphna In The Rough.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I was born in Berkeley, CA, but I live in New York City now. My mother&#8217;s family is originally from Queens, and I seem to have inherited the New York gene.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">All of my relatives on my father&#8217;s side of the family live in Greece. Most of them live in a tiny village on the southern coast of Crete.<\/span> (<a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=42&amp;album=7\" target=\"_self\">You can see photos here.<\/a>) <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">While my mother was pregnant with me, my parents played in a Greek band. \u00a0They sometimes played for money at<\/span> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ghirardellisq.com\/ghirardellisq\/index.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Ghiradelli Square<\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">in San Francisco. My mother played the rhythm on the guitar, which she believes is the reason for my love of music.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Speaking of my love of music, I study voice, piano, and Arabic percussion. Not kidding about the Arabic <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">percussion. I even went to a<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.larkcamp.com\/information.html\" target=\"_blank\">world music camp<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">to study in the<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mendocinowoodlands.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">woods<\/a>. <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Fresh air, music from all over the <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">world, some of the planet&#8217;s most glorious trees. . . What could possibly be better?<\/span> (<a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=42&amp;album=11\" target=\"_blank\">See photos here<\/a>.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Here&#8217;s a picture of my dumbeks (the one on the left is from Turkey, the one of the right is from Egypt):<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-53\" style=\"border: 0;\" title=\"dumbeks\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks-300x201.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks.jpg 573w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Someday, I hope to be able to play\u00a0l<a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=60TlXdsfg5U\" target=\"_blank\">ike this<\/a>. That&#8217;s\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sarit_Hadad\" target=\"_blank\">Sarit Hadad<\/a> playing. I absolutely\u00a0<em><strong>LOVE <\/strong><span style=\"font-style: normal;\">and adore<\/span><\/em> her! Her song <a href=\"http:\/\/www.hebrewsongs.com\/?songID=287\" target=\"_blank\">Yam Shel Ahavah<\/a> was the springboard for my very first novel.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"color: #0000ee;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks.jpg\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/dumbeks.jpg\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/joanmel.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-54\" style=\"border: 0; float: left; margin: 10px;\" title=\"joanmel\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/joanmel-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">When I was 15, I shook the hand of the<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.monarchie.be\/en\/family\/albert\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\">king of Belgium<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I once saw Bill Clinton through the window of a restaurant. I&#8217;ve seen Paul McCartney in concert. When I was five years old, I sat on Joan Baez&#8217;s lap. I&#8217;ve also had wine with Lani and Sam. I <\/span><em><span style=\"color: #000000;\">know! <\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Talk about brushes with fame!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I spent my junior year of college at<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/overseas.huji.ac.il\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Hebrew University of Jerusalem&#8217;s Rothberg School<\/a>. <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">So did<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wolf_Blitzer\" target=\"_blank\">Wolf Blitzer<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\">(from CNN)!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/hamudi.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-31\" style=\"float: right; border: 0; margin: 10px;\" title=\"hamudi\" src=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/06\/hamudi-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?cat=18\">Hamudi (aka Creature)<\/a>, my cocker spaniel, looks like he&#8217;s right out of a Disney movie, but really, he&#8217;s just 25 pounds of trouble. Although now that he&#8217;s out of puppyhood, he&#8217;s a much better roommate, even though he&#8217;s managed to steal <\/span><em><span style=\"color: #000000;\">two<\/span><\/em><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> loaves of bread in the past<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> year. If you ask me, that&#8217;s a bit too<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jean_Valjean\" target=\"_blank\">Jean Valjean<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> f<\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">or such a spoiled animal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">My coolest job ever was teaching kids to build robots out of LEGOs. I taught<\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> Kindergarten and first grade for four years, and have a degree in Instructional Technology and Media.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">If I could choose to have a super power, it would be stopping time, like in that<\/span> <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0092423\/\" target=\"_blank\">show from the eighties<\/a>. <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">It would be such a cool power to have when the alarm clock starts shrieking every morning, don&#8217;t you think?<\/span> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">Then again, maybe I&#8217;d prefer the ability to be &#8220;beamed up&#8221; like on Star Trek. That would seriously cut down on my commute time and keep me out of rush hour. And just think of all the places I could visit and save on airfare. Plus, I wouldn&#8217;t have to deal with motion sickness. Such a tough choice.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I spend an embarrassing amount of time having useless debates in my head about stuff like what super power <\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I would choose if given the choice. This is scary.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I cook with a ton of garlic. Just visit my<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?page_id=22\">recipes<\/a> <\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">page and you&#8217;ll see what I mean. Oh, and just so we&#8217;re clear, I make the absolute best<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?p=114\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">hummus<\/span><\/a> <span style=\"color: #000000;\">in the world. Well, to me it&#8217;s the best because I make it exactly the <\/span><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\">way I like it. You personally, although really I don&#8217;t see why, might possibly like it another way. Mine is very garlicy and lemony, and definitely not for wimps.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Now you know more than you ever wanted to know about me! If, for some reason, you feel compelled to learn more, take a look at <a href=\"https:\/\/melinakantor.com\/?cat=40\">my favorite posts<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Thanks for stopping by!\u00a0 I<\/span><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">t was great to meet you!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Feel free to drop me a line at melina@melinakantor.com<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><br \/>\n<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #003300;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><br \/>\n<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On October 6th, 2007, I went to Central Park with the dog and my iPod. I sat on a bench by Turtle Pond and listened to the Will Write For Wine episode on NaNoWriMo. Less than two months later, I had a 50,000 word manuscript that eventually turned into Daphna in the Rough. 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